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SUMMARY:The Black Pansy Library - At Fallout RVA
DESCRIPTION:The Black Pansy Library is a collection of books\, magazines zines\, articles\, and writings focused on kink\, leather\, sex work\, sexuality\, gender\, and the history of these minority groups. \nSubjects are primarily nonfiction and range from educational materials\, in depth guides\, DIY\, anthologies\, essays\, history\, comics\, photography\, and more. \nThe library is privately owned by Orion Verse and currently hosted in Richmond\, VA. This will be a pop up where community members will be welcome to look through\, read\, and borrow selections of the books.
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/the-black-pansy-library-at-fallout-rva-2/
LOCATION:Fallout RVA\, 117 North 18th Street\, Richmond\, VA\, United States
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SUMMARY:Reign of Pain 2026 - ChemicalPlay
DESCRIPTION:Link: https://fetlife.com/events/1839826\nReign of Pain 2026\nReign of Pain returns for its second year\, bigger and more diabolical than before. This virtual event brings together some of the most passionate kink educators\, sadomasochists and pain play lovers of all intensity preferences\, and edge/higher risk accepting players from around the world for a weekend of education\, exploration\, and connection. \nReign of Pain is designed for those who crave intensity or exploration through S&M\, “dark” themes and play\, “edge play” or higher risk play\, and other related areas. But don’t let imposter syndrome tell you that you don’t belong. Kinksters of all experience levels\, intensity preferences\, and from all backgrounds can find a home (and wickedly delightful inspiration) here. \nOrionVerse will be teaching ChemicalPlay\nWhat do ginger\, soap\, mint and peppers all have in common? The capacity to use these and more to illicit anything from a gentle sensual experience to a whole new realm of torture. Join us as we go over the different substances you can use\, where you can use them and the safety considerations to keep in mind when starting out your chemical filled adventure.
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/reign-of-pain-2026-chemicalplay/
LOCATION:Online
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SUMMARY:PUSH Durham
DESCRIPTION:I’ll be at PUSH Durham teaching – \nQueer Bodies and Negotiating Intro + Discussion\nWhen you are Queer or Trans\, nothing can make you completely lose space in a scene faster than having your gender identity or body engaged with in a way that feels disrespectful or gross\, even if you know the person has no bad intentions and is perhaps just misinformed.\nThis educational focuses heavily on negotiations as a queer person or when playing with queer people\, how to talk about consent around bodies\, touch\, negotiating words being used\, and how to help someone feel validated and comfortable within a scene as well as how to proceed if a mistake is made\nCo-Presenter Ally Brinken \nTime TBD\nMore information Here (Website)   And Here (Fetlife)
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/push-durham/
LOCATION:the Fruit and Club ERA\, 305 South Dillard Street\, Durham\, NC\, 27701\, United States
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SUMMARY:The Black Pansy Library - At Fallout RVA
DESCRIPTION:The Black Pansy Library is a collection of books\, magazines zines\, articles\, and writings focused on kink\, leather\, sex work\, sexuality\, gender\, and the history of these minority groups. \nSubjects are primarily nonfiction and range from educational materials\, in depth guides\, DIY\, anthologies\, essays\, history\, comics\, photography\, and more. \nThe library is privately owned by Orion Verse and currently hosted in Richmond\, VA. This will be a pop up where community members will be welcome to look through\, read\, and borrow selections of the books.
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/the-black-pansy-library-at-fallout-rva/
LOCATION:Fallout RVA\, 117 North 18th Street\, Richmond\, VA\, United States
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SUMMARY:Alchemy Burn 2025 with FAFO
DESCRIPTION:Alchemy  Burn is a regional burn west of Atlanta\, GA. A burn is a gathering\, a “temporary autonomous zone\,” a place of art and music and costumes and food and drink. I will be hosting events and handing out free zines.
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/alchemy-burn-2025-with-fafo/
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SUMMARY:Richmond Zine Fest Tabling
DESCRIPTION:I’ll be at Richmond Zine Fest tabling with my zines and prints\, come say hello and check out a bunch of other talented Zine makers! \nRichmond Zine Fest is a two-day event. On day one\, Friday October 10th from 12 PM – 5 PM (note: this is has been changed since the printing of the poster) is ONLY programming aka workshops\, presentations\, dialogues\, and opportunities to learn something new. The programs are held in the basement of the library. \nDay two is Saturday\, October 11th from 10 AM – 4:30 PM\, and this is the big vendor day that is recognizably “zine fest” to the average attendee. We take over multiple spaces on the first floor and the basement levels of the library with exhibitors that have produced zines for purchase and/or trade. Please see our section on zine fest etiquette for tips about how to engage with tablers and what is inappropriate. \nMasks are required for all participants in Richmond Zine Fest.
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/richmond-zine-fest-tabling/
LOCATION:101 E Franklin St\, 101 E Franklin St\, Richmond\, VA\, 23219\, United States
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SUMMARY:Let it Reign - Substance and Play Virtual and Recorded Class
DESCRIPTION:Fetlife Link – https://fetlife.com/events/1803158 \nTicket Link – https://events.humanitix.com/substances-and-play/tickets \nContent Warning: Drug use\, nuanced and non-consent\, medical information/terminology\, addiction\, harm\, and discussions of theoretical violence. \nWe all hear on repeat\, don’t mix substances with play because it is dangerous. This class goes over exactly Why it is dangerous\, what the risk profile looks like on common substances\, and what ways we can mitigate risk and navigate consent if you do choose to mix the two. This is a safety\, information\, and risk mitigation oriented class. This class does Not condone or encourage the mixture of intoxication and play but rather evaluates the potential risks and dangers. \nIn this class we will be going over the following –\n★ Why people may mix substances and play\n★ Why is it is generally considered high risk to do so\n★ A variety of substances and medications\, why people do them\, and the\nmajor risks associated with them individually pertaining to overlap with kink and consent\n★ Risk considerations and approaches if you do intend to mix substances and play \nWhat this will not go over –\n★ Nuances of every particular substance\n★ Harm reduction training or overdose response\n★ Safe substance combinations\n★ Demonizing substance users \nThe presenter does provide links to outside resources that people can learn more about on their own for the subjects that the material is not focused on. \nAdditionally\, everyone who participates in the class (either live or download) will receive a link to a hidden webpage with the information as well as a PDF copy of a zine with the same information to keep with them. The webpage is not available to the general public without the link for this class specifically.
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/let-it-reign-substance-and-play-virtual-and-recorded-class/
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SUMMARY:The Black Pansy Library - At RQK RVA
DESCRIPTION:The Black Pansy Library is a collection of books\, magazines zines\, articles\, and writings focused on kink\, leather\, sex work\, sexuality\, gender\, and the history of these minority groups. \nSubjects are primarily nonfiction and range from educational materials\, in depth guides\, DIY\, anthologies\, essays\, history\, comics\, photography\, and more. \nThe library is privately owned by Orion Verse and currently hosted in Richmond\, VA. This will be a pop up where community members will be welcome to look through\, read\, and borrow selections of the books.
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/the-black-pansy-library-at-rqk-rva/
LOCATION:Fallout RVA\, 117 North 18th Street\, Richmond\, VA\, United States
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CREATED:20250825T190922Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20250825T190922Z
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SUMMARY:REVIVE! Lay Rescuer Training
DESCRIPTION:REVIVE! is the Opioid Overdose and Naloxone Education (OONE) program in Virginia. \nREVIVE! training is one strategy in the harm reduction toolbelt designed to overcome the negative consequences of opioid use. Harm reduction is a practice that protects both individual and community health by addressing unnecessarily dangerous\, and often deadly\, realities of substance use. \nIn this training\, participants will be taught how to recognize and respond to an opioid overdose emergency by administering naloxone\, or Narcan— a nasal spray proven to rapidly reverse opioid overdoses. \nLay Rescuer – A lay rescuer is someone who has received training in offering essential first aid and medical care during emergency situations. These individuals are not medical professionals\, but they have been educated to identify and address medical emergencies. \nThis training covers understanding opioids\, how opioid overdoses happen\, risk factors for opioid overdoses\, and how to respond to an opioid overdose emergency with the administration of Naloxone. \nThis is an in person event \nSign ups are limited to 30 individuals. Please understand by signing up\, you are comitting to attending this event. If you are unable to attend\, please let me know as soon as possible so someone else may have your slot. \nhttps://www.signupgenius.com/go/10C054BA8AE29ABF4C25-58140858-revive
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/revive-lay-rescuer-training/
LOCATION:Fallout RVA\, 117 North 18th Street\, Richmond\, VA\, United States
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SUMMARY:Ignite Burn 2025
DESCRIPTION:I will be attending Ignite Burn 2025 with camp Fuck Around And Find Out providing a safe space for exploration\, discussions\, and distributing educational materials focused on sex\, sexuality\, consent\, kink and gender. \nHome
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/ignite-burn-2025/
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SUMMARY:Frolicon 2025
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URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/frolicon-2025/
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LAST-MODIFIED:20241118T233653Z
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SUMMARY:Kinkfest 2025
DESCRIPTION:Kinkfest 2025 April 18-20
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/kinkfest-2025/
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DTEND;TZID=UTC:20250115T210000
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SUMMARY:RVA TNG - Risk Profiles & Consent
DESCRIPTION:A risk profile is a set of guidelines that outline what risks you may or may not be willing to take when playing. Some risks are obvious\, but what about the more nuanced possibilities? What considerations should you have around the potential for accidents? How can we mitigate these risks? This educational will help guide you through potential risks to a wide variety of play\, creating your own risk profile\, forming a more nuanced perspective of things to consider when creating a risk profile and effectively negotiating. This will be partially discussion\, partially educational\, and partially hands on with worksheets you can take with you. \nFallout RVA 7:30PM – 9:00PM January 15th \n117 North 18th Street\nRichmond\, Virginia\, United States \nFetlife Link: https://fetlife.com/events/1669028
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/rva-tng-risk-profiles-consent/
LOCATION:Fallout RVA\, 117 North 18th Street\, Richmond\, VA\, United States
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SUMMARY:CT Unmind At Upline Studios CT
DESCRIPTION:I will be at CT Unmind at Upline Studios CT Teaching Substance and Play\nWe all hear on repeat\, don’t mix substances with play because it is dangerous. This class goes over exactly Why it is dangerous\, what the risk profile looks like on common substances\, and what ways we can mitigate risk and navigate consent if you do choose to mix the two. This is a safety\, information\, and risk mitigation oriented class. This class does Not condone or encourage the mixture of intoxication and play but rather evaluates the potential risks and dangers.
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/ct-unmind-at-upline-studios-ct/
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DTSTART;TZID=UTC:20241015T080000
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LAST-MODIFIED:20240926T082924Z
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SUMMARY:Alchemy Burn with Fuck Around And Find Out
DESCRIPTION:Alchemy  Burn is a regional burn west of Atlanta\, GA. A burn is a gathering\, a “temporary autonomous zone\,” a place of art and music and costumes and food and drink.
URL:https://toloveandplay.com/event/alchemy-burn-with-fuck-around-and-find-out/
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